By Mare Barasik

Salutations everyone,

The first thing we saw when we arrived in the village was a welcoming energy, with everyone smiling, and more than one person offering to help us as a group. When we were trying to carry our bags, people came from all around to help. When we had questions, people came to answer. The host at the hotel, Bandia, wanted everyone to see the inside of the huts before we could even have questions to ask. Even at meals, without us even asking, everything was refilled. Back home, you usually need to ask for those things. All of this kindness and helpfulness, showed the respect that people have towards others even if they’re not from their country. I never felt alone. There was always someone to ask or someone to help us.

This helped me see one of the biggest things I noticed during my time in Senegal – the way people live their lives. A good example is Gie, the man who drove our donkey cart. The whole way to the village on the island by Hakuna Lodge, Carter and I tried to talk with him, and he genuinely looked happy while speaking with us. We used hand signs and the few words we knew – like bottle of water (bouteille d’eau). We went back and forth on everything until we understood each other. We used Google Translate when we could. The important thing was that the person in front of us never wanted us to leave or go away. When you look around, you see people living without rushing. It feels peaceful. There is no constant complaining, and everyone seems content with what they are doing. When Carter gave Gie 5000 CFA as a tip, he started tearing up. He was so thankful and said “thank you” more times than we could count. Gie was the GOAT but he is also just a normal Senegalese person – friendly, smiling, tall, wanting to learn about us, and share his story (he also likes to dance).

What I’m trying to say is that yes, life here can be very different from ours back home. Things are not always comfortable like they are for us. But the people do not complain. They seem happy with what they have and eager to share. Everyone helps one another, and there is a strong sense of connection and community. Where I come from, it is completely different. I come from a city that never sleeps, never slows down, and is never quiet. Many people there do not appreciate what they have and are always looking for more. Back home, some kids can be selfish and unhelpful. Here, the kids want to help their families because they understand the struggles around them.

Long story short, I truly enjoyed our time in the village on the island, even though it was just an hour or two. It helped me start to understand a way of life that I never thought I would experience. It showed me how hard life can be when resources are limited, but more importantly, it taught me something powerful. The people living in Senegal live without excuses and without constant complaints. They work to understand everything around them and to share what they know with visitors. They accept life as it is and try to enjoy it as much as they can and we have a lot to learn from them. 

Thank you.


9 responses to “Haste Makes Waste”

  1. birdmellow5613d45876 Avatar
    birdmellow5613d45876

    Greetings, Mare! Love this insight and so glad you all are having this experience!

  2. Janie Rhoads Avatar
    Janie Rhoads

    Beautifully said! What a gift that you all are being presented with this wonderful perspective!

  3. Portia Carey Avatar
    Portia Carey

    Mare, this is well said. I’m very happy you have experienced this. Hopefully you can help us all be happy with what we have

  4. jbyers@me.com Avatar

    As Mr. Alter says, travel is education in itself. Keep that learning mind open. Nice work.

  5. haleywil Avatar
    haleywil

    This is awesome Mare! As the trip goes on, I hope you keep paying attention to the pace you witness in different parts of Senegal, and what that means about how people in general spend our time. Being in Senegal (and travelling to new places in general) made me think a lot about how quickly I tend to fill up passing moments with my phone, or with podcasts, or with distractions. Can a different pace that we’re used, or a new place we hope to understand, teach us how to be more mindful in between? And if so, what can we learn from that?

  6. Mollie Avatar
    Mollie

    Mare, it’s good to hear your voice on a Global Ed trip! Your perspective has always been an interesting one to me, but somehow you have quietly made it to the spring of your senior year. Thanks for sharing with everyone following along. It means more than you realize.

  7. Heather Casey Avatar
    Heather Casey

    Mare,
    I thought it interesting that one of the first things that your expressed in your reflection was the kindness, helpfulness, and respect that has been displayed since your arrival in Senegal. This is a common thread I have heard friends of mine discuss after visiting other countries as well within this past year. It seems that so many other nations have found one of the keys to life that we as Americans have either not found, or have lost along the way with being so intensely focused on the fast pace of life and what is next to come. Humanity. These countries that live life under the unspoken rule of a slower pace seems to provide their citizens with a life they seems truly content living. They seem happy with who they are, and while they may not have tangible riches, they are so much richer than we are because of how they allow themselves to live a life that is actually worth living. They live that life together, being present in the moment, caring about each other’s well being. The mutual respect they have for one another and the land they live off of is absolutely amazing. One of the kindest people I have ever had the opportunity to know was my children’s preschool teacher. She was from Ghana. They way she cared for people was like no other. She made everyone around her feel special and loved. She was so patient, but at the same time she expected those around her to hold up their part of the bargain and for everyone to work together. It seemed to me that even though she always appeared to be so laid back, she worked hard so that she would be able to play even harder and enjoy spending time with those fortunate to be part of her life. One of her iconic sayings, or mantras of you will, was “you get what you get and you don’t throw a fit.” I feel like being around someone with that mentality is almost a wake up call of sorts. It helps you to be grateful for what you do have, and not take that for granted. Everyone works together for a common goal, each playing their part in the dance of life. It takes every human in that family unit or in that village to make life work, and in a way that the whole community benefits. We could all take a lesson from this type of community living and go back to the basics. We would likely all have happier and healthier lives. Plus, it never costs anything to be respectful and kind to those around your. You never know when your smile, gentle thank you, a pat on the back, or even a handshake could give them strength, confidence, and help them turn a horrible struggle within themselves around and change their perspective. I am so happy that you all are learning that there are different, and dare I say better ways to live a life worth living. I hope each of you is able to keep a piece of this way of life in your heart and always remember to treat those around you with respect and kindness, and to live each day to its fullest.

  8. Bulent Barasik Avatar
    Bulent Barasik

    Bülent Barasik
    March 13, 2026

    These are wonderful observations: kindness, helpfulness, and respect. Unfortunately, these qualities are generally disappearing. I’m absolutely certain you and your friends will regain them. Thank you, son🙏👏

  9. Steve Carozza Avatar
    Steve Carozza

    Mare,

    Your reflection beautifully captures the spirit of the people we met, especially the generosity, patience, and joy you noticed in those everyday moments. I was really touched by how thoughtfully you paid attention to the small interactions, like your conversation with Gie, and how you connected them to something deeper about community and gratitude.

    From my very first interactions with you, it has been clear how much you value family and friendship. The sincerity and kindness you bring to others is what makes those relationships so strong, and the people in your life are truly fortunate to have someone with such a big heart.

    Send me the dates for Turkey. I’ll see if I can make it after the Bahamas! 🙂

    Happy trails, my friend.

    ~ Sensei Steve

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