By Jacob Carey

Going fishing and talking to the guides the best that I could, made me realize I’m not so different from the people of Senegal. They live a laid back life and don’t seem to be in a rush or get upset over the little things, they’re just living life and having fun. At home in the Bahamas, I live a very similar lifestyle. No stress, fishing and socializing as much as I can. Living like this makes the people happier and healthier. 

On one of our first days in Senegal, we went out on one of the pirogues.  Pirogues are long, skinny wooden boats.  They’re probably 25 feet, with a motor almost midship in an inclosed part of the boat.  It was only a 15 HP Enduro, made by the Mexicans.  Our first stop was in the middle of the river.  We anchored but didn’t quite hold, drifting slowly as we dropped shrimp to the bottom.  I used a hand line.  At the first spot, we only got a few hits and didn’t catch anything.  Then we went to a second spot by a channel marker that seemed more promising.  We dropped down again and did pretty good.  I caught a stingray.  Mare caught a black carp (carpe noire) and Lillian caught a toadfish that the call “crapeau” here in Senegal.  It was fun.

We stayed for a while out on the water and went to another spot by the mangroves.  We didn’t get much luck there either but it was beautiful.  The whole time, we were guided by Bidi and his friend.  They were probably in their early 30s and had clearly been on the water their whole lives.  They were quiet.  At first I figured it was just because of the language barrier, but I think it was actually because they were focused on helping us.  They were very nice and helpful.

The guides reminded me of Mare (my roommate of 3 years) and I. Although they were working they were also messing around with each other and trying to push the other off the boat. As Mare and I work together at the Christchurch waterfront we are always messing around, trying to make the other laugh or get upset. For us this makes the work go faster and although we had a language barrier I believe they do the same.  Being on the water isn’t really a job for them, it’s a way of life.  They said they’re fishing on the water everyday, whether they have a client or not.  They’re out there all the time, just like their ancestors.  Dibi is also a swimmer.  He’s faster than me but it felt like we had that in common (I like to use fins).  There wasn’t a line between his personal life and his working life and I felt he wanted all of it to be happy and good.  I was able to talk with Dibi even though we didn’t have a common language.  We used hand signals and smiles.

This is the kind of lifestyle I want to have, a not so serious laid back life where everything is connected and I am able to feel the right balance. I think that in America there is a big issue with being caught up in going to work making money and going home to repeat. Having a life revolved around working and making money is something I never want to have because it leaves you stressed and doesn’t always leave you time to do things you enjoy. I will always strive to live a life like the Senegalese working enough for what I need and spending the rest of my time socializing and doing things I love, like fishing and boating. 

I also had the great honor of starting in the West Africa tickle fighting league. The tickle fighting is very similar to Senegalese wrestling except the first to giggle loses. Although the tickle fighting league started as a joke it has sparked curiosity for Senegalese wrestling and I’m hoping to see a match before leaving.


6 responses to “Tickle fights, fishing, and my connection to the people.”

  1. Portia Carey Avatar
    Portia Carey

    Jacob, we are so proud of you. Exploring the world and seeing the fun things in life. Reading your stories today was the highlight of my day. Please stay the same. Live, love and laugh always.

  2. jbyers@me.com Avatar

    This was so much fun to read and enjoy. Everything IS connected. You have that figured out at a young age, which will help you build the life you’ve imagined. Go for it!

  3. birdmellow5613d45876 Avatar
    birdmellow5613d45876

    Love that you have such a clear vision for your life. I have no doubt you will succeed. Great post!

  4. Mollie Avatar
    Mollie

    Jacob, the world is lucky to have you in it! Keep being smart, relaxed, and smiling through the challenges!

  5. Heather Casey Avatar
    Heather Casey

    Oh Jacob, as always, hearing of your antics put a smile on my face and in my heart. Only you would be able to introduce the Senegalese to the concept of tickle fights AND incorporate it into your reflective writing. I am glad that as your are adventuring in a far away land that you are able to feel comfortable and at home in that environment. It is nice to be able to meet new people and immediately be able to find commonalities in your life and theirs that help you be able to relate to one another. The relaxed and laid back way of life suits you well. One of the biggest things I learned from visiting your home this year was how much of a blessing it is to just be able to allow yourself to enjoy each moment at a slower pace. It is so freeing and therapeutic. I felt so much peace in that realization and was truly able to seize the moment, soak in the details, and relish in simply living instead of allowing life to pass by as I worked myself to pieces. That was one of the biggest gifts I have ever experienced it. You are so fortunate to have grown up in a community where that is everyone’s normal and not just a sporadic exception to the rule. Take care our yourself and enjoy every moment of your time in Senegal. I cannot wait to hear all about it and to laugh at all of your fun stories. I am proud of the young man you are and feel blessed to have you as part of our chosen family.

  6. Steve Carozza Avatar
    Steve Carozza

    Jacob,
    I loved how you captured the shared rhythm of life on the water and the way you recognized pieces of yourself in the fishermen guiding us. Your reflection shows a real appreciation for the balance, joy, and humor in that lifestyle, and I have to say the creation of the West Africa Tickle Fighting League might be one of the most memorable cultural exchanges of the trip.
    Are you SURE…you parents are ok with me visiting your home in the Bahamas this summer?? For a month??
    I so appreciated your style and humor.
    Enjoy the moments…
    ~ Sensei Steve

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